We have a screaming nutjob next door, but we don’t talk about that because she has a boyfriend, so this makes her socially up the pecking order if you also happen to be stupid, nasty and mannerless. This one suffers from what appears to be the same disorder as Bawbag, which was interesting to note. Whilst I miss Bawbag, I do not miss his disorder. I am sure he will not be at all hurt by my saying that.
This is apparently how stupid people determine who is sane and who is not. If you have a male in attendance, you are apparently entitled to make spurious comments about other people, threaten them and break the law. This nutter used to stand at the window and laugh at me maintaining my parents’ garden, and I have not seen her doing something similar for her great grandparents over the decade or so she has been camping out there.
I have single handedly managed a whole universe of situations that these people could never have managed, also funded situations that these people wouldn’t spare a penny for, and I am supposed to continuously tolerate abuse because it is much easier for the world to let it happen over and over again.
Now to be fair to the nearby nutters, my mother perpetrated quite a bit of this because she ‘didn’t like clever people,’ an opinion she revised when she found herself at the mercy of a great many stupid people who were intent on ending her life, which they succeeded in doing about six years ago.
She did apologise for what was sustained family bullying, instigated by her, and I didn’t hold it against her. I just felt sorry for her thinking that she wasn’t ‘clever.’ whatever that meant to her.
What she was was a lot more fun than I am, so indulging her meant I got to experience more stuff I wouldn’t have bothered with. I am obsessed with work, to the point that I will always select work as the preferred option, even to the point of avoiding doing more important things to do more work.
Hence, my mother got indulged, because for me work/education was the only safe place and my way of exploring the world. This is what happens when your own family continuously act against you.
Life is complicated when the person you care about most in the world hates you and you are her only means of support. All she actually achieved was making me avoid stupid people.
The family currently owe me quite a bit of money, which is a good thing because they won’t be pursuing a method of making payment. Being no contact has improved my life greatly and I am happy that it is unlikely that I will ever see them again. I do not miss them in the slightest, and I especially don’t miss their badly brought up, disordered behaviour. It would be nice to be notified once they are gone, but I don’t expect it.
It does get annoying when stupid people repeat gossip, but they don’t have anything else to do, so what can you expect?
Have a couple of interesting meetings tomorrow and later this week, hopefully work is about to get a whole lot more interesting.
For those who drop in looking for financial forecasts, there is about to be a massive dip, so invest wisely. Even the banks are panicking about this one and there are likely to be a lot of very large fines in the next few years due to the hiring policies.
For those dropping in to get an update on my huge pile of unfinished work, sorry I still haven’t been feeling it, one earlier piece took seven years to finish because I was busy trying to live, this is not unusual and usually ends up with better stuff. I did a bunch of wall covering paintings a few weeks ago, they will be coming pretty soon.