So last night I discovered that an online stalker had been using my name to torment some ghastly woman I met once. I suspect it is probably bawbag, since he has a record of having previously done this to other people.
I was, needless to say, not amused, particularly as he was dumb enough to email and indicate that he wants his current girlfriend to attack me.
Why, you ask? Well he appears to suffer from a similar personality disorder to a couple of relatives of mine. It is pointless to diagnose, since nobody seems to have a relevant treatment for it, but in any case, he is bamboozled by anyone saying no to him, despite at the same time knowing perfectly well that he is an inadequate and horrible person. He said so himself.
Apart from that, I am apparently not permitted to either grieve for my dead loved ones, purchase a cup of tea or make a film to help everyone, including him. This would upset his sense of grandiosity.
Why he is still not in jail is a mystery. The number of people angry with this guy is growing steadily. The aforementioned girlfriend seems to be quite happy with this situation, to the point of joining in.
I cannot imagine waking up every morning determined to damage other people, or how you would not figure out that this was not a happy way to live your life, so I cannot help these people with their problems.
Far better to leave them to it.
In the meantime, an aspiring boyfriend from before I met bawbag is turning up at the door daily, and thinks that criticising me is the way to my heart. I have no interest in this person and am wondering whether to deal with this less politely.
This is the problem with toxic family. You are left with a kind of permanent wound that means people want to flout your boundaries all the time, with apparently no time limit. Why they don’t find themselves something more worthwhile to do I do not know. Presumably they have nothing in their heads but yet more bile.
Anyway I have other things to do, so at least that mystery is solved and I can carry on with my work, which is of considerably more interest and importance.
